Followup to #12201

- Send notifications to ExtUI for M0/M1

- wait_for_user can be non-volatile (not changed by interrupt)
  C / C++ compilers don't optimize away reads of non-volatile variables when a function call is used between accesses, because *any* variable could be changed by the function call. Since `wait_for_user` can't be changed without a function call, it should be non-volatile so the compiler can optimize away cases where it is read more than once without an intervening function call.

- Ensure `MarlinUI:get_progress` is defined for `ExtUI`.
- Fix for `BACKLASH_SMOOTHING` with small segments.
  `BACKLASH_SMOOTHING` with extremely small segments failed to fully correct due to the correction factor being rounded down. Rounding up ensures the entire backlash will converge to zero even for small segments.
- Add pinout for the beta revision `EINSY_RETRO`.
- Update soft endstops with tool offsets (for toolchange et. al. move clamping) (#12568)

Fix #13333

See #12731

See #12981

See #13267

When `count()` returns 0, `pos > (count()-1)` will always yield `true` due to integer underflow.