This commit moves the monitoring role to the bottom of site.yml so that
it is executed after all other roles.

This is needed because the monitoring role conditionally installs Monit
configuration file based on whether some other packages have been
installed or not (such as ZNC).

This patch also adds a comment to the "monitoring" entry within the
"roles" list and a `roles/monitoring/README.md` file telling users why
the monitoring role has to come last.

Resolves #284

In order to check the version of the linux distribution we need to
set `gather_facts` to True.

Closes #73.

That way we can override all the config from a central location. The
`user.yml` file overrides `defaults.yml`. `user.yml` was added to
`.gitignore` in order to allow a user to change it without having to
worry about merges. It's easy to do a diff to see what changed between
the defaults and your own settings.

Needs documentation, this is just a proposal.

Refs #39