In reference to #15139

Followup to #15125

Co-Authored-By: Ludy <ludy87@users.noreply.github.com>

- Avoid white flash on TFT (re)init. Unlike Graphical LCD, the TFT init color may be full white if the backlight is on during init.

- Add a conditional for delayed backlight init which can be applied to any backlit display.

Allow `ENABLED`, `DISABLED`, `PIN_EXISTS`, and `BUTTON_EXISTS` to take multiple arguments. Also add:
- Alias `ANY(...)` for `!DISABLED(...)`
- Alias `ANY_PIN(...)` for `PIN_EXISTS(a) || PIN_EXISTS(b) ...`
- Alias `EITHER(A,B)` for `ANY(...)`
- Alias `ALL(...)` and `BOTH(A,B)` for `ENABLED(...)`
- `NONE(...)` for `DISABLED(...)`